technology
Quick Takes: Things the Internet Ruined (And a Few It Fixed)
November 19, 2025
The internet giveth and the internet taketh away—but sometimes the fix is simpler than we think.
The internet ruined the ability to be bored. Boredom used to be a feature—a void you had to sit with, think through, let your mind wander into useful places. Now it’s a bug we patch instantly with a notification, a video, a refresh. We’ve optimized away the space where good ideas happen.
It also ruined serendipitous discovery. Search engines and algorithms promise they’ll find what you need, but they’ve closed off the browsing—the “stumbling onto something unexpected on the bookshelf” feeling. Everything’s personalized, curated, fed to you based on what you already like. The web became a mirror instead of a window.
Professional gatekeeping, though—the internet actually fixed that one. You don’t need permission from an institution anymore. A developer can build in public. A writer can publish directly. A creator can reach an audience without a label. That’s genuinely powerful, even if the signal-to-noise ratio makes it harder to find the good stuff.
Same with access to information. My grandparents had to go to a library and request a book on interlibrary loan. I can read primary sources, academic papers, specialized knowledge on nearly any topic before breakfast. We complain about misinformation, and rightfully, but the access itself is remarkable.
The brutal one is how we read. We’ve trained ourselves to skim. Headlines, summaries, bullet points. Deep reading is now a deliberate act instead of the default. Some of us are aware of it, wrestling with our own attention spans, but the architecture works against us. Platforms are designed to keep you moving, not to let you settle.
And tool permanence took a hit. A spreadsheet you built five years ago might break because an API changed. An article you bookmarked vanishes. Free tools disappear or get paywalled. The things we build on the internet feel temporary in a way they shouldn’t. You’re always renting, never quite owning.
But connection across distance—genuinely fixed. I can talk to someone on the other side of the world in real time. Communities form around obscure interests. People who would’ve felt alone now find their people. That’s not nothing.
The internet didn’t create these tradeoffs; it just made them visible. It’s given us tools to do more, faster, and spread thinner in the process. The question isn’t whether the internet is good or bad—it’s whether we’ll use it deliberately or let it use us. Small habits like tweaking your phone settings matter. Picking better tools matters. Noticing matters most.