Asking for What You Want Without Sounding Like a Guru
Joshua Bandoch wrote a whole book on asking for what you want. The framework's useful - once you strip away the coaching cliches. Here are the scripts that actually work.
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Career & Work
A focused shelf of PickyFox posts on career & work.
Epicurus on the Anxiety-Free Workday
Emily Austin's reading of Epicurus reframes pleasure as the actual goal of self-employment. Here are the practices that move closest to it, curated short.
Common Sense Is Usually Right (Even at Work)
Philosopher Michael Huemer argues that when smart arguments lead you to absurd conclusions, the arguments are wrong, not the common sense. That's a useful idea to bring to a pricing meeting.
Bloom's 5 Wealths Are Useful - Here's What He Misses
Sahil Bloom's five-wealths framework gets a lot right. It also collapses something important about how freelancers experience time. Here's the honest audit.
Why You Can't Stop Working (Becker's Uncomfortable Answer)
Ernest Becker thought everything humans do is a strategy for dodging mortality. Apply that to the creator hustle and the picture gets very uncomfortable, very fast.
How to Spend Money Without Hating Yourself After
Morgan Housel wrote a whole book on this and freelancers still won't buy the nice chair. The FIRE shame spiral is doing more damage to your finances than the spending it's policing.
Decision Quality vs. Decision Outcomes (Stop Conflating Them)
Annie Duke has a name for the move where you grade your business choices by how they turned out. It's called resulting. It's making you risk-averse in exactly the wrong places.
The Story You Tell About Your Work Becomes Your Work
Every freelancer is running a private narrative about what they do for a living. That story either opens doors or quietly bricks them up. Most people never notice which.
The Career Pivot You Should Plan Before You're 50
Arthur Brooks split intelligence into two engines - one peaks in your 30s, the other late. The freelancers who plan around that shift age into power. The ones who don't age into panic.
'Follow Your Passion' Is Newport's Favorite Punching Bag
Cal Newport's career-capital model is more interesting than his attack on passion. The model is what changed how I think about competence, career capital, and why most people pivot too early.
Why You and Your Client Aren't Actually Disagreeing
Kurt Gray's research on moral conflict suggests most disagreements aren't about values - they're about who got hurt. The same model explains almost every client fight I've ever been in.
Build a Freelance Portfolio With No Experience
The chicken-and-egg of needing work to get work is fake. Here's how to build a freelance portfolio with no experience, using projects you make for yourself.